So, I’m feeling a little annoyed today so I decided to write about things that annoy me everyday to make myself feel better. Sound strange? Good… let’s get started.
The following things drive me crazy: (Lets call them pet peeves…)
- People that are fake. I think that this drives me most crazy when it comes to FB and Twitter because everyone is fake to a certain degree in real life – whether you want to admit it or not. It’s like, HELLO – unless you’re only friends with people you don’t know this just makes us question your character! If you suck, let everyone know you suck – don’t just reserve it for those of us that have to put up with you in real life.
- Eating Noises! OMG, this should have been #1. I was raised by a very southern family that believed you should have good eating etiquette at all times. It’s the basic rules folks… (a) chew with your mouth closed (b) do not talk while you have food in your mouth (c) do not stuff more food into your already full mouth so that we have to see the contents while we are eating (d) do not freaking smack (e) do not slurp (f) do not eat loud, crunchy items in quite environments (g) and this is only for some of you, how is it possible to make so much noise with your mouth closed? Oddly enough, this has made or broken relationships for me in the past – I can’t be spending too much time with you if I want to slap you every time that we eat together. lol So yeah, if you have bad eating etiquette, let’s NOT do dinner.
- Gum Chewers and Ice Eaters – this had to go in it’s own category. Please do not smack your gum behind me in line. It really makes me want to turn around, reach into your mouth, pull the gum out, and wrap it around your little annoying head until you stop. And for those of you that sit in the quiet office eating ice all day long – STOP! It drives everyone around you bonkers – I promise.
- When someone apologizes for how I feel. This is the most useless waste of words you could ever say to me when you actually owe me an apology for something stupid you have done. Think about it, is the way that I feel the actual problem or is it just something your dumb ass did that you’re not really owning up to?
- When someone acts a certain way because they are with a certain group. So, I see this happen all the time… but some of the most memorable experiences are fromLittle RockandAtlanta. One in particular, some friends of mine and I were at a Karaoke bar inLittle Rockand this girl came in. From the moment she walked in she was trying to get “in” with our group (or whatever you want to call it) and thought the way to do that was to change the way she was talking, pester everyone that was black in the bar to sing RnB songs she claimed to know, and then was annoying until some people from the group I was with sang “Ignition” with her. Oddly enough, all night she was like, “Let’s sing Ignition, it’s my jam… oh we have to sing it..” and when we finally gave in… girl didn’t even know the words! I’ve had other friends who acted a certain way all the time, but the moment that they got around black friends of ours their whole language and demeanor changed. Do you really think that’s impressive? Really? Act like something you’re not to try and get approval from others – FAIL!
- Drivers in NWArkansas! I have NEVER been in a place where so many people stop at the end of on ramps. It’s called an acceleration ramp because you are supposed to accelerate to the speed of traffic so that you can merge at the appropriate time. Seriously people! If you pulled that getting on 285 inAtlanta, we would just bump you out of the way, give you that middle finger salute, and move on!
- Comments about my eating habits! So, yes, I’ve lost 180 pounds. I am now a much smaller version of myself but I still think like a 300+lb girl. I don’t need you or anyone else to tell me what to eat, that I’m eating too fast, that what I’m eating isn’t good for me… or to make any comments period. You can ask me if the food is good and leave it at that. In fact, I’m not sure why anyone feels that they can make comments like this to anyone – it’s rude, none of your business, and you NEVER know if you’re REALLY hurting that person’s feelings. Honestly, it was comments like this in my childhood that started my bad relationship with food. Think about what you’re saying to someone before you say it.
- Men who ask if the curtains match the drapes. This doesn’t even deserve my time to talk about but SERIOUSLY! Why would you think that question is appropriate? Next time someone asks me this I think I’m just going to slap them and see if that teaches them not to ask questions like this to a lady anymore! lol
- Assumptions about me based on my friends. For the majority of my life I have hung out with a very diverse group of people. I feel comfortable in just about any situation with a variety of people just cause that’s who I am. When I’m inLittle Rockhanging out with my friends, quite often I am the only white person in the group. Due to this, I’ve had comments from people in public and on FB (that I deleted). Questions like “Oh, you date brothers huh?” (this is always followed by some FB stalking attempt a then a deletion from my friends list) or “Well don’t you stick out like the center of an oreo cookie?” (unless we are close and I know that’s not a racist/ignorant comment, it’s considered possibly offensive and gets deleted) that I just thought were stupid. Even worse, when people approach me in public they expect me to act different or talk in a different way just because my group of friends. What the hell? That doesn’t make any sense – life is not like the movies folks. Of course, there’s always the assumption that I’m one of those white girls… ugh. And you know what I mean.
- People who drink but can’t handle their liquor, are fully aware of it, but still let themselves become a burden to their friends. I’m not talking about the average person just going out to get a buzz – I’ve got a few friends that when you go out with them you know that they are either going to get you in trouble, try to start a fight with someone, or there’s a chance you may have to carry them out of the bar later on. If you need a babysitter to go out, maybe you should hire or date one – don’t be this person in your group of friends.
- Whispering in my ear… Not many people are aware of this but I really am not fond of whispering. It makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up. To be honest, it’s not everyone’s whisper that gets to me… it’s those extremely breathy ones that are loud. Drives me nuts and not in a good way! It’s 2011, if we are in the bar together and you need to tell me something the dumbass behind me doesn’t need to hear – Text Me!
Ok, I think that’s all I have to talk about on this subject for now. What annoys you? I want to know!
Jones